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I echo what BungaBunga said, perfectly summed up my thoughts on this interesting topic. However, I would like to add more thoughts. I also agree with some of what has been said in the other posts too.
My personal preference is crystal clear to me. I mentioned in another thread that all I have been watching for a very long time is VR porn only. Traditional porn doesn't satisfy me anymore, and OF content in general never attracted me. Specifically, I'm into to what people mostly call "Vanilla porn" which I believe is the most popular category. I tried different extreme things out of curiosity, but quickly abstained from watching them when I felt that I start becoming cold-hearted and it started affecting me irl.
When it comes to fan sites, it's six of one, half a dozen of the other, two ways. From the perspective of the content creators, OF may be better because they have more control and potentially higher pay. From the perspective of consumers, porn companies may be better because they offer a wider range of a better content at a lower cost. However, it's important for both adult content creators and consumers to respect each other's choices and not expect more than what they can afford/give. Frankly, it's a matter of personal preference and what works best for you. This takes me to the next point.
When I read Aidra Fox's tweet Marge1994, I found it both striking and provocative. I assume she wasn't at her best state of mind when she posted it, which may have led to her deleting it. However, I believe it was an honest expression of her feelings. In my opinion, I think that pornstars can avoid getting annoyed by certain fans by being clear about their boundaries and preferences in their profiles. Such as specifying 'OF only,' 'GG only,' 'Solo only,' etc. Unfortunately, many choose to keep it ambiguous in order to maximize their follower count because they're afraid of their 'the target audience' might get narrowed, which can lead to frustration on both sides. In contrast, if pornstars don't want to limit themselves and their specialties, they can't really get upset when fans ask for something that they don't offer.