vrpicasso most of them are right for me in both passthtough and regular vr yes. I remember a few in recent memory that where too small though. Which I find less noticeable when I turn off pass-through not more noticable. My ipd is 65. 68 is pretty big though and might explain your issues.
Also I just a quest 3 for passthrough. I've done some tests and only things closer then 1m to the camera get distorted for me. The rest is a perfect match for me scale wise.
@rerun119 are your still on the pimax 8kx? That might explain things. Used it for years and it's a great headset but I had to modify the software ipd to get to the right scale (compared to my index then). Also I think I remember you saying the scale was right for scenes I found way too small.
BTW it doesn't mean I don't believe it's too small for you I just doubt if it is so for most people.