sheldoncooper
The Quest 2 is probably still the best bang for buck solution. Although it has some limitations, like limited IPD adjustment, it is just a three step solution instead of being seemless, and a somewhat uncomfortable default headstrap.
I would recommend the 256GB version, if you wanna use it for porn and not just rely on streaming, as there unfortunately is no memory card slot.
HTC Vive focus 3 is based on the same SOC, but has a better screen and optics and a memory card slot, but it´s price is somewhat ridiculous.
For PC based VR the HP Reverb 2 is probably the best for porn and reasonably priced.
As an all around headset the Valve Index is probably still the best, it lacks the resolution compared to the newest best headsets, but you get a noticeable increased FOV compared to many other headsets, probably the best speakers on any headset and superb build quality with a very comfortable mounting solution, and you get this with Lighthouse tracking. Of course if you just wanna use it for videos you will not care about it.