I'm a gay woman living with a gay woman.
If I'm wearing it, I'm either tied spreadeagle or other position where my partner can acess me, and I'm watching the actress while my partner does similar stuff to me.
Alas, there are far too few "LesbianPOV". I get it, men are the primary market, and generally all you see is their eyes.
Sometimes I wear a strap on and have my partner suck and ride while I watch similar on the headset. Sometimes fucking a guy while she rides.
When she wears it, I'm usually a black woman π
Alas, there is no BDSM on this site, and KinkVR is too pricey for what they offer.