I’m usually sitting or reclined when I’m watching VR. But my preferred cumshot is when the stuntcock is standing and the girls on her knees begging for a load. Culminating in swallow or facial.
How do you watch the videos when you're handling your business?
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I'm always reclined into my chair with my legs up on a small ottoman, controller in my right hand while playing with my left.
Use the mini joystick on the controller to tilt the camera up/down when I can't be bothered to move my head far down/up.
Have a hand towel close by ready for when I'm close so then I'll place it on my tummy/chest and hope my jiz don't shoot all over the place lol, so try to aim my cum downwards into the towel without getting any on my hand. Then take the headset off to clean up properly.
4 days later
Most the time im laying down, and i hardly ever cum during a the cum shot, i usually cum during something i think looks hot, its all hot really 
And u say mess? Uhmm sure it could be messy if u popin all over your self or you could just use a towel to pop into or buy a fleshlight
Sitting on my couch w/ fleshlight in left hand. Controller in right hand with keybinds for zoom in/out, tilt down (tilt up I need the menu but it's much more often I need to tilt down), reset to default view, skip ahead (10 secs), skip back (5 secs), screenshot (never you mind why lol). All other functions I open the OSD and use the controller options there (volume, back to main menu, tilt up, height etc).
This is an interesting question which reminds me on all those videos dominated by the dudes hands making me feel somhow unreal. ( i got one hand on my thang, the other on my controller, wondering where all these hand are coming from...)
I'm a gay woman living with a gay woman.
If I'm wearing it, I'm either tied spreadeagle or other position where my partner can acess me, and I'm watching the actress while my partner does similar stuff to me.
Alas, there are far too few "LesbianPOV". I get it, men are the primary market, and generally all you see is their eyes.
Sometimes I wear a strap on and have my partner suck and ride while I watch similar on the headset. Sometimes fucking a guy while she rides.
When she wears it, I'm usually a black woman 
Alas, there is no BDSM on this site, and KinkVR is too pricey for what they offer.
2 months later
Venus 2000. 'nuff said. https://venusformen.com/
midorijin Hah! I get your concern, but it's an isolated system. The motor moves a diaphragm in and out, there's no pump, and the change in pressure inflates and deflates the tan colored rubber inside the tube. If there were a leak in the system, it would just deflate and not work anymore.
typically recliner chair...problem is family flying downstairs when i'm blind and all lubed up...it won't be pretty
finally got adjustable bed in downstairs room....locked door, works great
midorijin Oh right, something about a penis pump mode.. never tried that setup. Even with that, there's only so much pressure that can be built up with the diaphragm. It looks kind of like a plunger with the handle attached to a wheel on the motor, so when the motor spins, it plunges. So that moves air back and forth in the system, then there's a valve box with a button to let excess air out of the system, and a button to let air back into the system. So you can get a light vacuum by letting excess air out, while it's plunging away, but it's not going to be a dick bursting vacuum. Hopefully that makes sense. I think it's a pretty clever design, but I'm a nerd, like that.
Oh, have my bed adjusted in Quest 2 as an Sofa, put on an condom and never be worried about any mess... 
Always with a Fleshlight, sometimes sitting, sometimes lying.
It depends on the video. Typically I'm either flat on my back, leaned back in a chair or if I'm in my bed I'm laying on my left side. Controller in left hand, fleshlight in my right. And of course I have my headset on so I can crank the volume.
Laying in the bathtub with the shower head on and toilet must be flushed at least once before strapping the headset on. 
Oh and disco light on. 
Vrsumo2017 Sounds like you know how to party
2 months later
bet it works great...with some great FACE missionary clips...had a few in mind and never could find that pussy toy from 20plus years ago
seems like it was made for this kinda thing
need to probably turn off the boundary protection
Usually laying down but, like the OP, I don’t like to have the cumshot in that position as it just ends up all over the dude’s stomach instead of the girls face or mouth.