Curious - Has SLR + a device replaced the interest in real relationships

Metamucil It has cut down the amount of times I try to have sex with my wife which mostly led to rejection. I am actually getting more sex with wifey since I got the Quest 3 updated as I basically just ask her once and then move on to VR without additional debate. No more frustration and I come off as being more chill. We don't talk about what I do in my home office at night with the door locked, but she knows what I'm up to with my VR headset and collection of lubes. She doesn't seem to care, but she has no idea how good this shit is. She probably thinks it's like 2D porn on a headset.

Speaking of witch, the most uncomfortable situation for me now is when some movie/show/person brings up VR porn when I'm with my wife.

(*disclaimer - all quotes released in the next statement are for satirical, comical effect and are not related to any person living or dead - any lefty nancies offended by this should probably not have blue hair)

Surely the point of having a wife apart from cooking, ironing, knitting and the odd darning of socks is to have 'REAL SEX' - hopefully she still does your socks, i always find keeping toenails trimmed helps though, are you not missing the main point of being married ?

Btw *which (no broom) - or maybe a fraudooodien slip

Metamucil she has no idea how good this shit is

First rule of VRSEX club is... No one tells the S/O how good this shit is...

Second rule of VRSEX club...

If I had a quest and SLR ten years ago, I'd probably still be married.

Well, my last girlfriend dumped me because she thought that VR porn was the same as cheating. Haven’t had that issue with my new girlfriend YET. She knows that I have watched VR porn, but she hasn’t seen it. I don’t think VR porn replaces a real relationship, but let’s face it, 12 AM on a Friday night at home with my quest and SLR is a lot safer of an option then running out into the world and trying to find someone to fuck. It’s also much better to watch a scene with a 18+ schoolgirl than chasing teenage girls around my neighbourhood for sex. Porn for me is just fantasy, it allows me to have sexual encounters that I wouldn’t get to experience or pursue in real life. Women don’t understand this shit. All they ever think is that men are comparing them to porn stars. I like having a real woman to cuddle with, and have an emotional connection with, but I also like to indulge in my fantasies. A man should be able to have both. You shouldn’t have to give up your fantasies because of someone else’s insecurities. Modern women do not understand men, go on YouTube and look at how much shaming and guilt tripping there is around “porn addiction”. We live in an era of “mass insecurity” where men are treated like monsters for having natural sexual fantasies, then we get labeled by the mainstream as creeps, perverts, and pedophiles. We are all sexual beings, just remember like anything that porn is ok in moderation, and paying for porn by the way doesn’t mean you’re an “addict”. If I sound a bit pissed off then I am. I haven’t lost complete faith in women, but I’m highly skeptical of relationships working out with the current hypocritical, and insecure brainwashed masses out there.

catflap Well relationships and sex are two different things, they dont have to be conflated. Sometimes its exhausting spending all the time energy money etc to get a girl interested to come home. Some hard to get woman who honestly is not a 10.. or even a 5 (I blame social media for her inflated self image) plays extra hard to get more than the hot girls who are already in relationships. Sometimes after a long day work, I look at some girl leading me on or something and like say to myself "ehh I dont even care"

Not entirely my fault, but I can also choose to use slr, noise canceling earbuds under earphones, a custom automatic lube drip that can be throttled to how many drips per second, custom heat strip warmed sleeve, custom toy holder that can hold tight as a rock at any angle laying down or sitting in a chair... etc etc you get the point. Have a great blowoff and get on with my busy life instead of spending all day trying to get some 5 home. Even a 10, for a few minutes of fun and thats that. Sex is way over rated, it aint worth all that trouble.

Now has it made me loose interest in relationships? That really is a different question. No it hasnt, but most women are skanks these days anyway and not worth a relationship where the guy takes all the risk and she can just walk away. Maybe I meet women in all the wrong places but the past 10 years at least, every "good one" you would wanna have a relationship with turns out shes a major hoe sleeping with everyone and cheating like its 1969. Ill take slr with a toy, ty