catflap Well relationships and sex are two different things, they dont have to be conflated. Sometimes its exhausting spending all the time energy money etc to get a girl interested to come home. Some hard to get woman who honestly is not a 10.. or even a 5 (I blame social media for her inflated self image) plays extra hard to get more than the hot girls who are already in relationships. Sometimes after a long day work, I look at some girl leading me on or something and like say to myself "ehh I dont even care"
Not entirely my fault, but I can also choose to use slr, noise canceling earbuds under earphones, a custom automatic lube drip that can be throttled to how many drips per second, custom heat strip warmed sleeve, custom toy holder that can hold tight as a rock at any angle laying down or sitting in a chair... etc etc you get the point. Have a great blowoff and get on with my busy life instead of spending all day trying to get some 5 home. Even a 10, for a few minutes of fun and thats that. Sex is way over rated, it aint worth all that trouble.
Now has it made me loose interest in relationships? That really is a different question. No it hasnt, but most women are skanks these days anyway and not worth a relationship where the guy takes all the risk and she can just walk away. Maybe I meet women in all the wrong places but the past 10 years at least, every "good one" you would wanna have a relationship with turns out shes a major hoe sleeping with everyone and cheating like its 1969. Ill take slr with a toy, ty
