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  • LifestylesVR channel - CANCELED

g2kbuffetboy i knew i liked this guy for more reasons than one. the i I's i ii's have it! i really hope Jimmy has way more specific details than just my logical observations and critical thoughts and analysis that he can provide.

    So, In Jimmy's world:

    • It's obvious that Jimmy and Lettucepoker are 2 different persons, even though they say the same things, write exactly the same things, make the same spelling errors and even a baby could see that thoses posts are coming from the same person.
    • Most of the girls were high on set, while Jimmy was the professional one being sober
    • There's some kind of conspiracy going on where tons of actresses are saying the same thing, just to get some attention, they're bad persons, were high on set and/or they're just mentally ill

    Did I get this right?

    MrLifestyles Can’t wait to hear your side of the story for once. I have a feeling no matter what you say or prove, these haters won’t change how they feel. They seemed to be locked into a porn actress like they have some real relationship with them. Even though they are getting played. I hope SLR continues their journey with you and gives you a chance. Long time Wankz member and left because their scenes got boring after you left. Saw on Twitter that you are here now, so when I see your studio is up and going, I will be joining. You’re the funniest motherfucker in the porn biz.

        MrLifestyles

        I appreciate you coming in here with a professional attitude. As we all learned from the #MeToo era, lashing out and/or being defensive provides no benefit--in fact, it usually just makes it worse for the accused.

        It is clear that you have some support from @doublevr , it is highly likely that your SLR channel will go forward. IMHO, your best way forward would be to address the concerns floated here with an eye on the future. If people are worried that you may act in an abusive manner on-set, then put in place some controls to minimize the chance of that happening. Off the top of my head:

        • Make it mandatory that an independent compliance officer is present on each shoot.
        • Limit the on-screen actors to just those that are contracted to be on-screen. No subbing in of crew for closeups or hands only.
        • No JImmy on-screen hijinks with actresses.
        • Use contracts that specifically state the activities and participants that will be performed.
        • Be professional--joking about sex can easily be perceived as sexual harassment. Berating/belittling your cast/crew is toxic.
        • Promote zero tolerance for sexual harassment/assault.
        • Mandate a sober set--make the hard decision that you won't film with intoxicated cast/crew.
        • Act contritely--I'm not saying to admit/apologize, but act as if you are teetering on the edge of full-blown mob cancellation ...because you are.

            fuccaneer That would indeed be the professional way to deal with this. If he can turn this around, from having fame of being the most unprofessional to the most professional and can explain how he's going to do that and show this to everybody and be serious about it, then this might work. But when I see his trolling with fake accounts etc, man I have VERY little faith he can or even would honestly want do this.

              I really don't understand the way SLR is doing business.
              Even if you believe he's innocent somehow (against all the actresses speaking out, not just Alex Coal), this seriously tanks your reputation and will also lead to several actresses not shooting with SLR anymore (if you check the twitter post, popular actors like Delihah Day also said they'll stop engaging with SLR) , as well several users cancelling their sub.

              In no world whatsoever will this be a net positive for SLR, even if he made good movies.

              There are so many talented producers you could work with instead, but you're going for the most controversial and problematic option for no reason.

              fuccaneer My advice to Jimmy: instead of trying to prove you're innocent (no, we wont believe you anyway, not after ALL these actresses came forward and your childish ways of 'dealing' with this), try to do what @fuccaneer just said. Explain the world how it's going to be different now, be credible about it, show the world proof of your new way of doing things. I honestly think this is the only way of this having even a remote chance of being a success. But again, I'd be highly surprised if this would work out and it would turn out to be a good decision for SLR to hire you.

                harigeharry So what? I said in my first post that I saw the drama on Twitter. Came to see what’s going on and wow, talk about cancel culture. Has Jimmy had any complaints since the original issue in 2019? It’s now 2024 and you guys are still going on with it. What a bunch of drama queens. “HE HAS NOT CHANGED. LETS CONTINUE ON WITH RUINING THIS GUYS LIFE”. That’s pretty fucked up. Have you ever thought that Jimmy has a production crew, that possibly has family with children that have been affected by this. Can I find out where you work and tell them how perverted you are and how you live your life wearing porn goggles all night every night, jacking off, talking shit in porn threads? I’d like to hear Jimmy’s side of the story for once. You all are treating him like he raped these girls and has been convicted of something. I’ve seen no proof of that. Just a bunch of girls with hurt feelings. I’m sure the porn biz is full of next day regrets and second thoughts.

                    Apparently, anyone that is for fair chances and in support of Jimmy Lifestyles, is Jimmy Lifestyles. What a joke.

                    SexualChoc Yeah that's the thing. After all these actresses came forward, it's almost impossible to believe you. If it were 1 or 2, it would be a completely different thing. But that ship has sailed. So that's why you should not even try to prove your innocence, ESPECIALLY not in the way you tried above, slandering the actresses ('that one has a mental problem, the other one was high' etc). It will not work and it will only come back to you. And this trolling with fake accounts DEFINITELY won't work to your advantage neither.

                        harigeharry I am not Jimmy. Is this some sort of Canadian thing where you just make accusations and go with it? It looks like SLR has about 1.5 million daily users. So for a handful of you guys that have issues with something, go somewhere else. It’s not going to affect SLR’s bottom line. It’s fucked up that you would hold a company hostage like this. I don’t think they need your business advice.

                            I’ve mostly stayed away from getting involved in stuff like this the last 8 or so months. There was no point, the industry didn’t care when I blew the whistle on bad actors. And it didn’t stop the fans from viewing the content. So honestly, I don’t expect anyone here to give a shit about what I have to say… but I’ll say it anyway

                            There have been a ton of producers that I have found out were abusers. I stopped working for them. I’ve been a producer for over 4 years now, and stopped shooting for a major company because they keep hiring known abusers. If there was any part of me that thought Jimmy was a scumbag, I wouldn’t be working for him in the past, or currently. I used to be very vocal about these things, but it’s gotten me nowhere. The status quo is always upheld. The fans (at least the majority) don’t care what happens in the industry. And the companies have systems in place so they don't hear when there are issues on set, so they can have maximum deniability.

                            I’ve known Jimmy since 2019. He used to shoot a lot at a house I was renting a room in. Directors like to keep male talent around who can get the job done consistently, so even though I was male talent, it took Jimmy about a year to start using me. In that entire time I was living at the house, I never once saw Jimmy try and have sex with any of the female talent. When I started being talent for him and was on set regularly, I never once saw him try and have sex with the female talent. I’ve seen girls try and have sex with him, and him brush it off, laugh and make a joke. I’ve seen female talent grab his dick and try to pull down his pants, but he always laughs it off and steps back.

                            WankzVR had some management guy, I forget his name. Who messaged me directly on Twitter saying he didn’t like how long I was jerking off to pop in one of my scenes. In DMs I tried to explain to the corporate desk worker that I did that for a number of reasons and to call me so we can talk about it. It became a big deal, because this guy who’s never been on a set and was trying to micromanage me said if I wouldn’t let the girls jerk me off to pop they would look into using different male talent. That’s when I blocked the WankzVR account and stopped working for them. I only came back because Jimmy said “hey, your not working for them, your working for me”. So I came back and did more scenes for Jimmy, and on sign outs would conclude it with “oh and fuck WankzVR”. I hope they have the BTS of that and have seen it. I did this because Jimmy is my friend.

                            I have called out so many bad actors, and no one ever seems to care. A director with BadoinkVR also shoots BJ videos for another company. He tries to get female talent to have sex with him off camera to get hard during the BJs… which wouldn’t you have to be hard to have sex to begin with? His stage name is Carson Grundle, oh and he did this too:

                            https://www.vice.com/en/article/wxez49/city-of-santa-monica-is-rather-upset-over-porno-filmed-in-public-library

                            Which brings to me Alex Coal. I’ve known her about the entire time I’ve been in the industry and she is one of the most abusive female talents I’ve ever come across. Her boyfriend/ex (Primal Fetish), I don’t keep up with it, has numerous allegations of pushing the boundaries of what is okay on set. On one set, Val Steel was abused when Alex Coal was on set running camera. I don’t remember all the specifics, but from what I remember it was when Alex left/was told to leave the room. This got her (Alex) dropped from Hussie Models. 

                            Alex Coal attacked a performer, Leda Bear, who came out about abuse from Primal Fetish while Alex was dating him. Alex ended up doxing her on video in retaliation. 

                            A few years ago, Jewelz Blu was shooting a scene for a different company who were using Primal Fetish’s house as the location. He has cameras all throughout the house which he has a room to monitor them in. He claims that he only uses them for hidden camera scenes, but I've seen them being active on his computer when he was paying me before. She brought up to Alex that the cameras which were in the talent bathrooms made her nervous. Alex dismissed her concerns and told her the cameras were off, so don’t worry about it. Jewelz went on to post about this on Twitter, which had Alex make a response video crying about how she’s being bullied now by people who were critical of her not taking into account a talents privacy concerns, or by covering up a camera in a bathroom. It was an interesting video because Alex seemed to have no tears coming out of her eyes. I’m sure when she responds to this crying, she won’t make that mistake again and will actually have some real tears. Look for her rubbing her eyes prior, usually you put something to irritate them on your hands.

                            Alex Coal is friends with BrotherLove, a man with naked pictures of his kids on his computer he brings to porn sets… and makes a point to show female talent when they are one on one. Oh and who beat his wife at AVN years ago which led him to being banned from attending. And who was arrested for beating his wife when I was driving to Vegas to be in a scene he booked me for. Those scenes didn’t happen because he was still in jail when I got to Vegas. 

                            Alex Coal is friends with Bobby Beefcakes, a man who pushes boundaries of new female talent. Sometimes having sex with them during the pretty girl pictures while the male talent is there just watching, waiting to do his job.
                            Alex Coal is friends with Jay Rock, a man who is banned from shooting girls from numerous agencies because of all the off camera sex he has with the girls. They will go home after shooting 5x the amount of off camera sex as on, and will be sore for their other scenes.

                            Alex Coal is friends with Kaitlyn Katsaros. Someone who has tried to coerce some of my friends who were new at the time into shooting scat/abuse porn. I don’t care what people are into, but trying to get new talent to shoot content that could negatively affect their ability to get work is scummy. Oh and Alex Coal also shot a video repeatedly punching (closed fist) Kaitlyn in the face. So she’s comfortable literally beating someone up for the content.

                            Alex Coal is a writer for Primal Fetish. She writes abuse scripts for porn regularly. Something like “I walked into the house to tell Jimmy I locked the keys in my car” could turn into “As I reluctantly sulked back towards the house, I was struck with dread at having to be in a room with Jimmy again. Seeing his sickly smile as I walked through the door struck fear into me, which shook me to my core. As I tried to get the words out of my mouth to tell him that I’d accidentally locked my keys in the car, I couldn’t help but wonder the price I was about to pay for my mistake”. She’s a writer and an actor, and had a grudge against Jimmy she had been carrying for years before the podcast she called him out on.

                            What grudge was that? On set negotiations about a creampie. She was fine with a creampie but wanted $100 more for it. Jimmy asked if she was on birth control, she said yes, and he said “The $100 extra is only if you aren’t on birth control”. Jimmy's only mistake was calling her agent on set and asking if a girl is on birth control and agrees to a creampie, is there or isn’t there an extra $100. Her agent agreed with Jimmy, it’s up to the girl to do if she wants. Jimmy made her feel stupid.
                            So every joke. Every laugh shared, all the fun on set, turned into abuse. Context matters, and a joke on a porn set with a full crew who, after an investigation, all said there was no impropriety means more to me then the (what I believe to be) false narrative Alex Coal has gone on to spin. I believe she has a grudge on a man who made he feel stupid on set one day in front of her peers and agent, and that she has been waiting for the right time to come forward to get her revenge. I know she has a huge fan base and seems like the nicest person around. But in my experience, her nice outward face conceals a petty, abusive, sociopath, who will work day and night to ruin anyone who stands in her way. One positive thing I will say about her is she is an amazing actor and writer, as she has convinced over 400k followers on twitter that she is a decent person. Despite all the abuse allegations against her.

                            The only reason I am comfortable writing this is because she has absolutely nothing on me. I've never shot with her, and my limited interaction with her has never been, or could be construed as negative. I treat female talent in a professional manner, and in my 6 years as a performer have never once had a company complaint about pushing boundaries of any of the girls I have worked with. I have been a producer/director for the last 4 years and in that time have shot over 150 scenes with female talent one on one and never once have had a complaint about my on set behavior. If I am willing to put my reputation on the line, I feel like it should mean something. If I am willing to work for a man who I truly believe is a good person, it should carry some weight. 

                            I will not be responding to anything I have posted here, this is my one and done statement.