petermc to pitch in as someone who prefers natural girls. It's not about vanilla sex to me. In fact I love a sexual adventures girl in porn and in real life. I mean who doesn't?
Fake though just doesn't do it for me both in looks and personality (and in porn the acting). I think the stereotype of a guy that just wants to ram his cock in a girl with big tits etc. is pretty untrue for the most part. Sure, it's fun and it's not like most of us wouldn't go there. In fact, I have had a few fake girls back in the day but apart from some of the initial horniness it didn't do much for me.
On the other hand the experiences I loved where all whit girls where you had a connection with and where you just had fun with another person. Whether that was a gf or a one night stand.
Now porn obviously isn't real life but a sense of intimacy and sexual desire are very intertwined for me as I guess it's for a lot of people. So obviously I will enjoy that "vibe" in porn too. I just don't like the over the top, everything is fake scenes that lack any sense of that. That doesn't do much for me.
Where the fantasy part (as opposed to what your likely to get irl) of porn comes in for me is in the harem scenes, having the kind of girls that are very hard to get irl, having some truly dirty girls, playing out all kinds of fantasies, etc.
What I do agree with though is that the setup and stories in vr porn are way to samey and vanilla. I would like to see more directors take a page out of the JAV playbook for that one.