Vrsumo2017 I would agree with @petermc here - at least on the issue he mentions.
The issues with the bigger dicks to me has always been:
- that BJs look awkward.
- it's easy to see the girl isn't comfortable at times which is a turn off for me.
- the girls can rarely go roots deep so it created this situation where half or a quarter of the dick is only going inside. I get that some girls can but I find it's more than often we have girls that can't
- finally in my experience I found the bigger the cock, the worst they are at actual pounding and it's even worse in VR. Sure there's exceptions but in general that's my experience. Maybe the guys are actually capable of pounding but it's the girls that can't take it - I don't know.
Don't get me wrong I get that some have a big dick fetish, some want to be THAT guy and a few are that guy. It's fine of course and I don't mind there's scenes for them. Personal though I rather watch a regular sized dude that the girl can suck to the root, get fucked without feeling uncomfortable, work the entire thing during penetration sex and finally that the guy can pound when it's required instead of that boring slow grind I so often see with bigger junk for the majority of the scene.