rerun119 I don't think most Americans want this at all.
If this is the case, then the individuals who do want this have a very loud voice and receive a disproportionate number of likes for their creepy comments. There are dozens of these comments on this very site with various solo studios like VRAllure and RealHotVR. Other than those two studios there are no studios in America that specialize in VR solo porn. BabeVR is essentially out of business. They have updates about once every five months.
I agree with you entirely in your characterization of the typical male porn creator. One of the reasons I subscribe to SLR is that they have an almost-exclusive agreement with John Strong for Alex Nashe's films. He's one of the very few male stars who is relatable and not creepy (well, creepy in the proper Japanese way). They should hire older men, but then similarly there are lots of complaints in forums, like I'm assuming from many of the closeted gay viewers, or maybe their girlfriends.
The only Americans I know are religious hypocrites. They don't believe one damn bit in God. If they did, they'd treat others with respect, and be less greedy and wasteful. You can judge a culture by its leadership, and Joe and his son Hunter are pretty typical of the Americans I know. Hunter spent 44K on porn in one year and wrote a whole bunch about religion and church going. It's not just religion in America that's experiencing its last dying breath. It's America itself, which is being destroyed intentionally in order to "build back better".
Back to the hypocrisy: Time stop videos are more consensual than any other kind of video, because the model must stay still or the illusion is lost. Creepy family porn is the least consensual, in that it titillates folks who dream of committing acts in violation of their role as an authority figure.

Lazy directors: Why not do casting porn and reality porn? It has worked for BCC for over five hundred of videos (guess it didn't work for GirlsDoPorn). CzechCastingVR videos are, in my opinion, mostly unwatchable because of the women (they have dirty hands and gross teeth and the color coding isn't right).
Side note: ESG is the devil on steroids. It's the hypocrites' code for feeling good while doing evil. Lots of outwardly religions folks, especially Catholics, support ESG because they are just so darn evil that they have a talent for self-deception, like a rapist who doesn't realize he commits rape. Being Catholic in America is never having to say you're sorry, and pretending to believe in Hell until you get there.