Discussion on how to last longer without any substances

Jericho13

Hey community 🙂
Surely each one of us has thought about that topic at least once in his life 😉
So since I just got myself the handy with an awesome sleeve I am interested in some of your experiences regarding training yourself to last longer/to enjoy the session longer - and no I dont speak about substances here.
Of course I could google myself into sleep about this topic but I was curious if I could get some real experiences on here ;D like techniques or “training exercises” or habits and what not.

anyone here has discovered some game changing tricks?

PS: I know there already is an old post about this topic but I would like to renew this one for me and hopefully many others 🙂

doublevr

I was told by producers that some very popular performer only uses Maca root powder.

Jericho13

doublevr never heard of this, gotta do some research on this one - thanks 🙂

Bucket619

Jericho13 Walls of Jericho 😎 but in seriousness i would just think of things to distract me during the act, like literally random thoughts and sometimes stop and relax and then continue. also slowing down my breathing helps

SchnuppiLilac

Jericho13 Some vendors also claim that this stuff will cure low sex drive. If it doesn't work for you, try soaking your sleeve in Tabasco 😉

Vrsumo2017

I usually just get to the edge of popping, stop for for few and repeat, all while im skipping threw many vr scenes, lol 🤷‍♂️

Lol and if i don't pop off my balls be hurting through out the day feeling full, 😳

You ever seen that badoink scene
"Virtual Sexology with August Ames"
It's pretty good 👍.

We need a new scene like that but using full body tantaly dolls maybe use a handy too in the scene. 👍

filthypiratehooker

Didn't read the other thread. Kegels and reverse kegels. Actively clench your kegel muscles for eight seconds and REMEMBER TO BREATHE. Being able to breathe smoothly while keeping your muscles contracted is incredibly important.

The other side is reverse kegels. It's what you do when you relax to pee. That sensation of relaxing your kegel muscles to let the urine flow is the same thing you should be doing during sex. Keeping the muscles relaxed like this is the best way to keep going. Clenching the muscle will accelerate cumming.

Wilcuman

What helps for me is a method that suppose to help fall asleep on demand, according to YouTube video, used by soldiers. What makes you cum is tension. So you go mentally through your body, you tense muscles in your legs as hard as you can, while also breathing in and holding the breath for couple seconds, then you breathe out deeply, while also relax the muscles, focusing to relax the as long as you can breathe out. Then you do the same with higher part of the body (torso, chest and back, arms, neck and so on) until you don't feel tension in your body. If you want, you can combine it with kegel aswell.

RealcumberScripts

Great discussion here and great to see so many recommendations to help eachother out! Although its unfortunate to sometimes cum too early, its definitely a 'good' problem to have 🙂

mnmlikereal I find I tend to last longer if my bladder is somewhat full. Not so sure that is a good idea though.

I actually do the same! Its likely not good to hold a full bladder, but a half full bladder or avoiding peeing before you get in a session definiltey seems to help me last longer, as well as stay harder, and definitely works in real life, at least in my experience

Of course this is also why we have the mappable Edging controls - to pause toy action, and adjust stroke intensity by touch of a button as you need it = https://www.sexlikereal.com/blog/410-enhancements-to-the-haptics-experience-new-ui-handy-improvements-more

metichemsi

Kegels and relaxation exercises for sure. For me it's different masturbating or using a toy vs real sex.

For toys and hands, it's much harder for me to go longer, I just dont get in the same state of mind as I do when I have real sex. Toys and hands for some reason tend to be more "transactional" for me, like more about finishing vs lasting.

When it comes to real sex, I have found that getting myself the most aroused I can through foreplay provides me the most longevity during actual sex, like to the point of being so damn hard that I almost cant be made to cum by my wife, she ends up complaining eventually and then tries to jack me off and even then, sometimes I'm so far gone that she cant even make me cum, I have to step and in rub one out on her myself, violently, that or the erection just ends up going down by itself after so long.

I have not mastered how to get myself into that state of mind but the key is definitely maximizing my arousal level before sex. It's hard sometimes, specially after being with the same person for more than 14 years, you have to find ways to spice things up, and its often harder than it sounds, specially if they are not as perverted as you haha

Anyways, try experimenting with getting yourself super aroused before you start to use the toy. It might also help. I think it's because the blood flow probably is very high and your penis is rock solid while the state of arousal is also a type of "distraction" as other have mentioned also helps, anything that distracts me from what my penis is feeling every second is a big help, so the arousal tends to do that for because it puts me in a very "animalistic" mental state and all I am mostly thinking about is how i can destroy this woman with my penis hahahahah and not so much how good it feels.

I would def not recommend desensitizing creams, they do work, and you have to find the right timing and amount to work with you and if you dont get those rights, it can completely ruin your attempt by making it very difficult to get hard when your dick is all numb. Keep trying via the natural way.