LittleCaprice I think everyone will respect your decisions, now that you even took the time to explain yourself personally (thanks for that). I think you also told everyone in the forum a good lesson in reminding them that performers incl. their loved ones are actual people and being impolite or insulting towards them will not help at all, especially if you want something from them.
Personally, I think it's great that female performers nowadays have a better chance to build an independent and sustainable business on their own terms instead of being exploited (or dropped) by some studios dominating the market.
At the end of the day, the guys here are not as bad as it may seem and are just longing to see you in VR again. VR customers are a peculiar breed because many of them probably just can't go back to flat videos anymore after experiencing VR. Personally, before VR I never considered subscribing to porn sites but here at SLR, it's all 'say no more, just take my money' π
As @spacepirate indicated, achieving the same high quality that you are currently providing in 2D may be much more challenging in VR, also considering the infrastructure that you need to have to provide high end streaming experience (I understand you are relying on streaming for your on-demand VR videos). Who knows, maybe @doublevr may come up with a nice co-production proposal in the near future that has benefits for both sides (incl. the super exclusive SLR haptics device model named 'Feel Little Caprice'?) π