In my younger days, I had so much fun in strip clubs that I can't tell all the stories. If you've got game, it's a challenge to try to pull girls out of the clubs. It's possible. Also, at most of them, if you've got the $$$, there's a lot more than lap dances to be had.
But they can be money pits for sure. And there can be lots of disappointing visits .
I couldn't begin to compare VR and strip clubs--strip clubs are a real life that includes the spontaneousness and unpredictability of real life. VR is an easy way to obtain an imitation of real life sexual gratification. VR is hella fun tho.