It’s a weird double standard but women using sex toys/aids is socially acceptable whereas men using them seems to be frowned upon like you’re the most desperate perverted loser ever.
No idea why that is as it’s exactly the same for both sexes but I always feel like it would be crossing a line for me personally to start buying fleshlights, sex dolls etc. so I’ve never gone there. I don’t judge other people for doing it, whatever floats your boat, but I’d judge myself for doing it or would feel completely humiliated if anyone ever found it.
I will admit though that, since getting into VR, the whole handy thing is getting more tempting all the time.