I have yet to find an experience where both, a man & a woman EACH have to wear a VR headset to SIMULTANEOUSLY have this VR adventure. Simply put:
He wears a VR headset and sees the male actor's POV experience
She wears a separate VR headset and sees the female actor's POV experience
They are watching separate videos, but all of the dialogue and actions are well-synced to each other.

Couple's Retreat made an attempt, but the execution was clunky.

    dh1980 This would be very difficult to realize with current tech. The scene would have to be shot twice identically.