I have yet to find an experience where both, a man & a woman EACH have to wear a VR headset to SIMULTANEOUSLY have this VR adventure. Simply put:
He wears a VR headset and sees the male actor's POV experience
She wears a separate VR headset and sees the female actor's POV experience
They are watching separate videos, but all of the dialogue and actions are well-synced to each other.
Couple's Retreat made an attempt, but the execution was clunky.
