chanser I absolutely agree even though I am firmly in the POV fan camp. Often these types of discussions devolve because its more a disagreement about degree or amount than true objection to forays into alternative paradigms. I don't like non-pov or actor voice in my mainstream VR porn, but, as long as its just an occasional thing, I can fast-forward or skip. This gives options to those who do like non-VR/etc.
And one additional point I'd like to highlight: when you do something that "ruins" a scene for a group of viewers, there are often alternatives out there for those viewers to switch to. However, when the scene involves a "one-and-done" actress or a unique "never-before-never-again" scenario, then there are no truly equivalent alternates. I was thinking about this from my perspective (POV, non-PT), but its also true that there are people out there that will never get a chance to see their "optimum" scene--whether thats a favorite actress in PT or a niche scenario like a non-POV lesbian harem orgy.
I think a solution will be to generally follow the numbers of statistical popularity while also reserving a small percentage of scenes for experimentation and niche content.