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bobbytables Why the hostility? I switched over to this thread and see a "verbal yell fight" coming from you towards another member here in English just for giving his free world take about his experience "in general about tears during VR cam streams." I agree you should report this extreme case, but lashing out at someone for having a different, but honest and thorough viewpoint plucked a nerve. That could've been me. This isn't reddit, we try to keep a more user-friendly environment here, just in case you didn't know.

I hope the camgirl gets the help she needs with your help even if it may not be needed. And just as you or Honkster may not need my help or thoughts on the matter, I'm responding in the same capacity because of MY concern about this written heated-exchange situation.

    Sorry... but somewhere in the Forum is s similar thread about this topic.
    And i was honestly shocked by the lack of compassion and empathy of most users!

    bobbytables

    Thanks for raising this issue! I want to check on the well-being of the model in question.

    So that I can investigate this further I would be grateful if you could email me directly at jayme AT sexlikereal.com with details of what you saw, the screen name of the model, and the approximate date and time. (Ideally in UTC.)

    I will contact DreamCam and we will talk to the studio involved.

    I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to raise this, and I would encourage anyone who has any concerns about anything they see on the platform to get in touch.

      Honkster I prefer when the models are able to freely express their honest happy or sad emotions. But of course each cam house should have mechanisms in place to avoid their facilities being used for sex trafficking.

      I agree with the most what you wrote about sad models...
      But this sentence made me think a lot...
      Of cause, we all do not like our jobs some times... but how often you start to cry in public about it?

      The stress of the girls is just immense!! Especially in the big Russian Studios!
      They take a big chunk of the money, plus fees, plus stress...
      ... just for a cheap hotel room and an internet connection!
      Please... do the maths... the studios making really big money!
      The girls, even the high rulers, just live from months to months...

      Thats the main reason i appreciate the SLR policy of stop working with them!
      And dc is still making new contracts... mainly in Russia!!!
      No wonder when you know from wich country the founders of dc and sc come... 😉
      But this is another topic...

      Thanks to slr for the good and fair work... and for this forum!!

        Very nice to see the obvious decency coming through in this thread. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable. By and large, that means consensual, and an activity deemed fun (or at least safe) for all involved. Like others here, I would never want to be party to anything but that. I also appreciate that folks can (and do) raise their hand and it is met with action. Thank you, @Busbear, @Polar, and others.

          argyle43 Absolutely agreed. Sex work is work and should be compensated fairly and sex workers should be treated with respect, just like any other job. Ideally the performers are having a great time, but even if it's just a gig, no one should ever feel unsafe or mistreated on a set. (Obviously there's room for consensual fantasy scenarios, but still...there's context.)

          We all have a responsibility to consume ethically, which means paying a fair price and understanding who we're supporting. We can't let another GirlsDoPorn situation happen.

            we might need some examples of consuming cam girls at a fair price

              spanker

              Tip early. Tip well. Tip often. Tip a little if you just watch. Tip a lot if you ask for her attention. Order off the menu.

              That sort of thing.

                  Mutiny and try to be the guy that makes her feel genuinely good about herself. so many assholes show up in these rooms that don’t have the first clue how to treat a woman with an ounce of respect.

                    24 days later

                    spent about 2k a month on the cam stuff

                    if they are not remotely close to doing anything you want? don't say anything...watch for a bit and leave...maybe tip a few tokens to say hi.

                    i love tipping a few tokens and having them SAY it would be better if it were a 100

                    those are the girls that rarely ever see me again

                    if i care about them...i SAY never poo poo a buck...you have no idea what's behind it

                    the latest? vina. i was so disappointed...i forgot we had the exact same run in a year ago. i give her 48bucks in 5min of sign up and she makes a stupid comment like that....and way more egregious actions.

                    Honkster I've also seen someone cry on camera about not getting anything out of camming few times.

                    It sounded like they live in a situation where the camming is their last option and even that isn't working out. To get all riled up about not making money some of them might be on the verge of not being able to pay rent for example. It's sad to witness and I might as well shed a tear or 2.

                    I'd love to help these people out but I don't have unlimited money and if I went all in to help them all, I'd have no time of my own either let alone any money to live.

                    That being said and back on to the real topic of the thread, for the sake of human decency there could be a more visible automated system to report the human trafficking kind of situations. That way the hassle of emailing and going through a manual process could be avoided and people will more easily do these reports.

                        jussi465 It sounded like they live in a situation where the camming is their last option and even that isn't working out.

                        Yes.. its often the only option to make money for these young woman. 🙁
                        So its even more important, that they work in a good and save environment!
                        That is why i really appreciate the decision of SLR to not work with Studios from RUS anymore!
                        There the cam business is not legal anymore! And this means the girls have absolutely no rights!!
                        They have no legal contract, no health insurance.... nothing!
                        And they live in constant fear that the police will intervene.
                        And when they are ill or just a little too late, or say wrong things in chat, they have to pay huge fees!
                        And at the end of the day they get just 25% of the money they earn!

                        This is modern slavery! And this happens in the middle of Europe!!!
                        But what do i say... just look how Russia behaves in Ukrain... 🙁

                        So thank you again SLR for your brave step!!!
                        And please! Speak with DC and if you can to SC... that these guys also start to overthink that!

                          Read and agree with the concern and the support users wish to give to these girls. I haven't witnessed any such breakdowns (only occationally visiting after some of my favs stopped streaming. Can only suspect they had to flee because of the war or something.)
                          But any situation I've witnessed, or of viewers trying to solicit direct contact information camouflaged by technical issues with the stream or some such; other viewers have often enough stood up and protected the webcam girl or shared their concern / told off the other viewer who crosses the line.

                          That's a climate to be proud of. =) imho. so keep bringing up your concerns. stay awesome

                          8 days later

                          The only time I came across a model that was upset was one night she was complaining about the condition of the environment she had to work in claiming that nothing is ever cleaned and she refuses to touch anything. Something about the beds being pee'd on or some shit. I didn't see her again after that night. I hope she's ok.

                          Russian girls usually come from rural areas, often thousands of miles and a 24-hour train ride away from their place of birth. They are often young and inexperienced and then quickly overwhelmed by the situation.

                          Some settle into the new situation but many are gone after a few days to months. So it doesn't take much to get an emotional breakdown and due to the guidelines of the studios this happens regularly in front of the camera, while a non-studio girl would just turn off her camera.

                          The rest learns techniques to deal with the situation, but raises an artificial facade for this purpose. Even if you've found a nice camgirl, the chances are great that she nevertheless will become dull with time or is no longer there after a few months.

                          From there, this is unfortunately a very unpleasant business and the user rarely finds what he hopes for through the possibility of interaction. Mostly he only gets to see human suffering and/or gets tricked into spending too much money.