oh, I forgot to mention I don't use any toy crap as others mentioned here. I use vaseline and turn my left hand into a pussy. lol. damn. this is why I didn't use my left controller in ages! believe me, no toy on earth can beat that! XD
so, yeah. again. don't complicate it to yourself. just a room, a bed, a headset and vaseline are all you need for best experience.
don't fall for marketing shit and just enjoy. it's just porn man, but in vr which is the best in many factors compared to other porn technologies 🥳