Over the past couple of weeks, I had the most immersive VR experience I’ve ever encountered. I’ve enjoyed adult VR recreation for years, but recently, it made me genuinely say, “WOW!”

I currently use the Oculus Quest 3 and access SLR via the DeoVR app. The breakthrough for me was discovering VR passthrough functionality—it completely changed the game. There’s no going back.

About a year ago, I bought the Handy and enjoyed the synchronized strokes it provided during VR sex sessions. However, holding that large black cylinder always broke the immersion for me.

That changed a few weeks ago when I purchased the Hands-Free Desk Mount from the Handy Store. I paired it with a hospital-style bed table and positioned the Handy perfectly for the optimal stroking angle. Total hands-free freedom.

Next, I curated a playlist of VR videos where the performers and lighting match the tone of my bedroom. Lighting and proportions matter—a lot. Some scenes made the models look ghostly in passthrough mode, or made the perspective feel off, like the motion was coming from my stomach. After trial and error, I built a list with just the right lighting, size, angle, and, most importantly, the bodies and faces that turn me on.

And then…I took a THC gummy.

All of these elements combined created a level of immersion that made my room feel like the set. I was getting a blowjob while watching her head bob in real time, feeling her lips wrapped around me. She climbed on top, riding me cowgirl style—breasts bouncing in front of my eyes, her pierced belly button moving rhythmically. I looked up to see her face staring into mine. She paused, gave me another blowjob, then spun around into reverse cowgirl. Watching her ass move up and down my shaft nearly pushed me over the edge. I paused the video, wanting to finish in her mouth.

After cooling down, I briefly visited the doggy style and missionary scenes. I finished with a cum shot in her mouth while she stared up at me with her beautiful eyes. Afterwards, she stroked and licked slowly, almost sending me over the edge again. When it was done, I took off the headset, looked down at the Handy and my cock, and just said—“WOW!”

I'm definitely doing it again tonight with a few other girls—and I can’t wait.

This was an awesome experience for me.
What worked for you?
Got any tips for taking immersion to the next level?

    SLRTroller With this incredible setup, how long do your sessions last? Because with handy it's very difficult not to ejaculate quickly... do you have a technique? I've been able to use it before, but I'd finish very/too quickly, even if I limited the back and forth...

        SLRTroller I've never consumed an THC edible. From what I read the high prolongs way longer than smoking? 6-12 hours which seems a bit long for a jerkoff session LOL. Isn't that a disadvantage? Why not smoke instead? Just curious. Thanks

            Shonoka I recommend you try edging videos to practice. When you get older, you will get better. I don't focus on finishing, I now focus on enjoying the current moment with my Virtual Partner.

              harigeharry It depends on what you take and the potency. On average, they last about 5-9 hours. I love being hi while doing my thing. It helps with immersion.

                  HughMungus I wish I could enjoy 5/9 hours of VR Sex pleasure. But on the other hand, my junk would be hamburger 5/9 hours. LOL

                    Does anyone have any other suggestions or experiences with advancing immersion?

                      Shonoka I take two types. A Sativa gummy is one I use. Another one is from the website Mood called Sexual Euphoria Advanced. This is the one that last >5 hours. https://mood.com/product/sexual-euphoria-advanced. Its too bad they don't ship to California any more. I dont know what I will do when i run out of my batch.

                        SLRTroller Close, intimacy with the camera - good eye contact, kissing, whispering - all the stuff that gets totally ignored constantly

                        Just ignore me - that is the goto 5 years later !

                        Apologies - what is the point of feedback if everyone totally ignores it - No wonder the forums are dead !

                            SLRTroller There is no bigger buzz than looking into a girls eyes and that feeling of connection in real life - Every now and again the magic happens in VR, but it is like fairy dust - But the tingle when it feels real in VR is incredible 🙂

                            Maybe VR companies should do testing on this rather that waste money on bad casting...

                            ... but no one listens to me... and SLR pump out scene after scene with no intimacy - whatever !

                                Approximately how much did this setup cost? Im interested. I have the quest 3 but haven’t ventured into the advanced….Handy like sex toys. I use a Tenga Spinner(spectacular btw), but like you said, even with a gummy being hands on doesn’t get you fully immersed.

                                For the guy asking why take a gummy for this when it lasts so long….watch some interesting YouTube videos or something? There’s really nothing quite like the feeling of still having that edible high after having an amazing VR session. Probably the chillest and most relaxed you’ll ever be.

                                  frankryder44z Interesting. Some videos have good sound but some have terrible. I will consider Noise Canceling wireless headphones for the good ones. Thank you!!