Theres not enough coyness or shyness. its all just exhuberant milf confidence and you will definitely do whatever they want.
bit of self doubt and desire would be nice. Am I mistaken in thinking that theres not enough? and too much of the former?
american female performers overconfident.
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There's nothing wrong about finding passivity, shyness, modesty, or coyness attractive. But that's a personal preference and defining what is "not enough" is up to the individual.
Rather than a blanket "need more 'self doubt'", maybe try writing/submitting Scenarios that reflect your desired characteristics.
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ableman I doubt you'll find any shy MILFs out there since confidence is kind of their thing it's part of being "MILF". But if you're looking for a model who's shy, regardless their age, most newcomers usually have a bit of shyness. Hazel Moore definitely gives off shy vibes, and so does Veronica Church. Charly Summer also feels a bit shy.
This actually could be the long term results of extreme adherence to compliance (think almost decades now). Hot Money, a podcast last year from the Financial Times, touched up upon this. Basically, what is the opposite of a "non-con" situation? The answer: what OP is referring to.
whats worse is that the "bored at work" look.
I don't know. I think it's more about the prevalence of the over acting porn persona then anything else. As in, you often don't really see their real personalities. Shame imo. I'd much prefer a more natural approach but unfortunately it's hard grained in American porn.
The meek/shy thing isn't a turn on to me, sometimes the opposite even. I prefer the current "American Girl" style
fenderwq In my experience many porn actresses act like 'what some women believe the male fantasy is' and it's usually a simplistic version of a woman that has little personality, little femininity, little 'depth', etc. She acts like a living fuck doll thst csn speak, so it's usually accompanied by one liners like: 'I can't wait to suck your BIG dick' or 'my pussy feels so good riding your BIG dick' in an attempt to ego stroke the viewer because she believes that's what a any man wants to hear. And then to simulate pleasure they moan over the top and role back their eyes in their skull and move their eyelids fast for a few seconds - because that's what women do, right?
I don't know and I exaggerate a bit but I guess it speaks to some and that's fine. I just gringe as in my experience no woman unless paid for actually acts like this. Or I just never meet any.
What's ironic though is that in those scenes where there's a bit of a plot, some pornstars show they can actually act and portray 'a role'. They sad fact though is that when the cloth is coming of that acting and 'role' goes out the window and they almost always revert into the mindless fuck bimbo throwing around gringe one liners left and right.
OliverDK very true, it's an act and it has slowly became part of the culture. Hard to change these kind of things but I've noticed some exceptions too. Like, I remember watching some ATK girlfriends back in the day and you'd have all these famous stars that would normally act all over the top all of a sudden just being "natural". Also shows you that yes, it's an act. It was quite refreshing really. You know, It's fun to have a girl go nuts for "you" sometimes but I just can't stand the fakeness of how it's usually done. That's not how a girl that is bonkers for you or is super horny acts in real life. Not in my experience at least.
OliverDK You said this perfectly. When I see in the title that you are "banging your virgin step sister" I don't even try to watch it. They go into pornstar mode the second the dick is out. The plot doesn't match what I am watching.
It would be great if the director could tell them to act like real life and not pornstar life. That would make a huge difference
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OliverDK I’ve started to believe that most of the dirty talk is basically just to be compliant with laws. If you actually listen to what they’re saying, 90 percent of dirty talk is just giving consent, to make it abundantly clear the girl is okay with what’s happening. Even the examples you’ve provided are basically just that. Kinda blows your mind when you realize it lol.
I haven't watched 2d porn in years. Does all this matter in 2d?
Is it carried over 2d style that works there?
ableman I guess it just comes down to being a good performer. If a girl says “I want your hard cock in my wet pussy” likes she’s being held against her will and reading off a script, kinda shatters the mental illusion that you’re watching a girl that is really into you…which is the case with a lot of them. The really good performers can say their lines really convincingly while also really nailing the non verbal cues, facial expression and eye contact.
I kind of notice the opposite. I feel girls are too quiet and shy these days
rerun119 Storyline is key and buildup to the breaking point where your “virgin stepsis” can actually believably show that she had actually now become addicted to how you bang her and possibly go from what you thought would be a simple fuck and facial to her switching it up on you last second and having you cum inside her with her not pulling off right before you cum… and then watching the semen slide out of her and you come to the realization you might just be fucked in life if she turns out to be pregnant in a few weeks was it worth it? you remain conflicted
after you enter that post nut clarity phase