mnmlikereal What do you all think ? I don’t have a girlfriend right now, but maybe soon. Do you all think VR porn feels real enough to be considered cheating ? Or is it just porn. Anyone have a girlfriend who is ok with it ?
All my girlfriends are fine with it, as is my wife. 😉
"Cheating" is kind of a vague term nowadays. The way my wife and I use the word, nothing is cheating if it is within the parameters of your relationship agreement. Some couples we have known consider any type of porn as being cheating. Others have sex with other people and it's not considered cheating.
If you're worrying that a potential new girlfriend will not like your use of VR, my recommendation is that you be very clear about it all upfront.
When my wife and I began dating about 12 years ago, she did not want to have sex until we were "exclusive." Well, the traditional meaning of exclusive wasn't going to work for me because I had not had enough threesomes in my life (to me, IRL and in VR, there is no more amazing feeling than having two mouths and tongues working my tool).
So, after thinking about it, I decided I needed to tell her, because otherwise it would be dishonest, and it would not be a
true representation of who I was at the time. In an amazing wonderful coincidence, at dinner the very same night she asked me, "how many threesomes have you had?" I told her, "not enough," and that I wanted a relationship with her where we could do that. The rest . . . well, we've been happily married for almost 10 years now and we've lost track of the number of times we've had threesomes, foursomes, and "moresomes."
The point is: You'll never be happy sexually unless you tell your potential partner what you need and want.. If she's not into it, she wasn't the right one for you. If VR Porn is something that you want to keep in your life when you have a girlfriend, you need to let her know, _otherwise, she will consider it cheating.__
How do you do it? This one isn't too hard. Ask her if she ever likes to watch porn. If (when) she says she does, ask her what kind. Undoubtedly, she will ask you the same question or express some type of curiosity about you. Then tell her that your favorite is VR Porn. Then the door is open to discuss if VR Porn will play a role in your relationship and what that role might be.
