SunnyRFF I'm a person sharing my thoughts 🤣 Are you one to say that VR sex is technically not sex? Think about it ... it would be hypocritical if you would say they are not the same. I was just using a loose analogy for what's considered mass consensus; as you have stated yourself, "the vagina is unique to the gals, ya know." By that logic, transwomen are not women.
It's typical for human-kind to define in terms of biology, separating one gender from another, one reality from another, or one experience from another, when to me that's just a form of discrimination that people are brainwashed into believing. "Penis? It's a guy." "VR? Not real." That's what "they" say and I completely understand your questioning, but as a person sharing more of my thoughts, why stop there? Why do we define men and women by their genitals? Why do we define what's real by who or what can be touched and taking up physical space?
I try not to get caught up in these things, and rather see the common denominator because otherwise we have much of the conflict we have in the world today. We are not just black, white, or asian, but human beings with a range of unique ethnicities ... we are not just male or female but living-beings who possess a range of feminine and masculine energies ... that which we think is "real life" is just a limited, perceptual experience we are presently aware of. I'm grateful for trans women transcending boundaries, and I'm also grateful for all experiences outside of "real-life" making us question what really constitutes reality. Lucid dreams, out-of-body experiences, psychedelic experiences, virtual reality, augmented reality, all forms of extra-sensory perception ... to me, it's all real, including sex in each one ... who cares what "they" say. 😃