Leonard75 Not sure if this is related to what you are experiencing, but I exclusively watch in AI PT (Hidden Male) in DeoVR. Some headset as you. When I back out of a video and start another it will start that video in the same PT settings as how I left my last, which in itself is cool. But sometimes when starting a new vid I just get the spinning dots. I hit back and try to open it again; historically the third time seems to have been the charm. I have experienced this for years, some nights it is worse than others.
Over the past two weeks the issue has increased in to every night, and the worse nights everything gets so bogged down that I get booted out of DeoVR and have to restart it. Sometimes it is so laggy I back out of the app voluntarily. In the end via a mix of reloading the app and clicking/backing out of videos I always get in and can watch the video in all its splendor. It is mostly just annoying, but it eventually works.
My uneducated guess is that the server is generally getting more bogged down with users, and some nights are worse than others.
I would bet that this is an issue for many that use DeoVR, but this forum only represents a sample set of the users. I have gotten burned out from my forum feedback going nowhere on other topics, and I've settled with just dealing with the annoyances.